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To close the gap, you have to change the medium of the message.

"You never listen" puts people on the defensive. you_dont_understand_me

Sometimes, the way two people process the world is fundamentally different. This requires a high level of patience and a "manual" for how to handle each other. 5. Cultivating Self-Understanding To close the gap, you have to change

People often listen through the lens of their own experiences. They aren't hearing your story; they are hearing their version of it. This requires a high level of patience and

Whether it’s in a romantic relationship, a friendship, or a professional dynamic, the phrase is often a plea for connection rather than an accusation. It marks the gap between what you feel and what the other person perceives.

If you frequently feel misunderstood, take a moment to look at your "transmission" style: