"That’s a separate issue we can discuss later, but right now we’re talking about [X]." 5. Listen for the "Third Option"
People lose arguments because they let the topic drift. If you’re arguing about the dishes, don't let them bring up "that thing you did three years ago." How to Win Every Argument
"It seems like we’re just repeating ourselves now. Let’s take a break and circle back when there’s new information." 7. The Ultimate Secret: Define the Win "That’s a separate issue we can discuss later,